Elementos teóricos para una historia de la familia y sus relaciones de violencia en la transición entre finales del siglo XX y el siglo XXI *

 

Bárbara Yadira García Sánchez[1]

Universidad Distrital Francisco José de Caldas-Colombia

 

Javier Guerrero Barón[2]

Universidad Pedagógica y Tecnológica de Colombia

 

Reception: 24/05/2015

Evaluation: 19/06/2015

Approval: 05/10/2015

Research and innovation article.

 

Resumen

 

El presente artículo tiene por objeto reflexionar sobre la historia del campo familiar  contemporáneo y sus cambios desde la revolución de los jóvenes en 1960 hasta la primera década del siglo XXI y las relaciones de violencias al interior del campo familiar. Se tomaron conceptos teóricos y metodológicos que permitieron  la contrastación entre varias épocas a partir del presente hacia situaciones del pasado, siguiendo el hilo de los conflictos micro-sociales que se expresan tanto como violencia filio-parental como la violencia entre hermanos, analizadas como tipologías de lo que se ha denominado violencia intrafamiliar. La reflexión teórica se apoyó en algunos planteamientos de Pierre Bourdieu sobre la violencia simbólica, la reproducción y específicamente sobre las estrategias de reproducción en el campo familiar, dando mayor énfasis a las estrategias de inversión simbólica, éticas y educativas. Los datos que soportan el artículo fueron tomados de las bases de datos de dos proyectos de investigación sobre violencia escolar en Bogotá en el período del 2009 al 2015, que arrojaron un campo de datos sobre familia y violencia que permitieron la elaboración de este texto.

 

Palabras clave: Campo familiar contemporáneo, relaciones de violencia, violencia filio-parental, violencia entre hermanos.

Theoretical elements for a historical approach to the family and its relations of violence during the transition between the 20th and 21st centuries

 

Abstract

 

The objective of this article is to reflect upon the history of the field of the contemporary family and its changes from the youth revolution in 1960s until the first decade of the 21st century, and the violent relations within the family context. The implementation of certain theoretical and methodological concepts allowed us to establish a contrast between several time periods, starting from the present and going back to situations of the past, following the track of micro social conflicts expressed in violence toward parental figures, as well as in violence between siblings; all of which are analyzed as typologies of intra-family violence. The theoretical reflection is supported by some approaches of Pierre Bourdieu regarding the reproduction of symbolic violence, and more specifically, the strategies of its reproduction in the field of the family. Emphasis is made on the strategies of symbolic, ethical and educational investment. The data used to support this article is taken from the database of two research projects on school violence in Bogota between 2009 and 2015 which resulted in a data archive regarding family and violence which allowed for the elaboration of this text.

 

Key words: field, contemporary family, relations of violence, violence toward parental figures, violence between siblings.

 

Éléments théoriques pour une histoire de la famille et ses rapports violents dans la transition entre la fin du XXe siècle et le XXIe siècle

 

Résumé

 

Cet article est une réflexion sur l’histoire de la famille contemporaine et ses changements, depuis la révolution des jeunes en 1960 jusqu’à la première décennie du XXIe siècle, ainsi que sur les rapports violents à l’intérieur du champ familial. A l’aide de concepts théoriques et méthodologiques nous avons confronté plusieurs époques en remontant le fil du temps et en suivant le cours de la violence intrafamiliale. La réflexion théorique s’inspire de quelques idées de Pierre Bourdieu autour de la violence symbolique et de la reproduction, spécifiquement sur les stratégies de reproduction dans le champ familial, en soulignant les stratégies d’inversion symbolique, éthiques et éducatives. Les chiffres sur lesquels s’appuie l’article correspondent à des bases de données de deux projets de recherche sur la violence scolaire à Bogota dans la période allant de 2009 à 2015.

 

Mots clés: Champ familial contemporain, rapports violents, violence intrafamiliale, violence entre frères.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1.   Introducción

 

Analyzing the family and the relationships of violence that arise within Pierre Bourdieu's field theory allows the understanding of it as a social space in which the agents: fathers, mothers and children in specific positions, dispute a symbolic capital and share a series of rules and norms that have been instituted in theory but which have been modified by contemporary social changes.

 

The most visible and most studied expressions of intra-family violence have historically been related to parental abuse and violence between spouses[3] as a by-product of patriarchal culture and paternal domination. In the contemporary family field, other types of violent relationships between their agents, such as children to parents and between siblings, need to be analyzed and understood.

 

From the last half century onward, since the youth revolution in the 1960s[4], fundamental changes have taken place in the contemporary family, both in the relations of authority evidenced in the new legal frameworks and in the family structure; such changes generating new meanings in interpersonal relationships that are often expressed through violent relationships.

 

According to Bourdieu, the field is understood as:

 

[...] a network, or a configuration of objective relationships between positions. These positions are objectively defined in their existence and determinations imposed on their occupants, agents or institutions, by their present and potential situation (situs) in the structure of the distribution of types of power (or capital) whose possession orders the access of specific advantages that are at play in the field, as well as their objective relationship with other positions (domination, subordination, homology, etc.) [5].

 

 

 

 

This familiar field in the contemporary world has been reconfigured by elements such as: a) The emergence of new family forms that have allowed the re-positioning of agents: fathers, mothers, sons and daughters; B) Changes in the conceptions of authority that has distributed power among its members, c) The new social and legal status of minors as subjects with rights; and d) The relationships of violence that reproduce themselves in this area. To understand this family field associated with the relationships of violence that are generated in contemporary times, we will analyze only two typologies: child to parent violence or the violence exerted by sons and daughters towards their parents or adult caretakers, and violence between siblings[6], to see how this child and juvenile population - which has been re-positioned in the social and family space as subjects with rights and duties - can manifest expressions of violence motivated by confusion, uncertainty, the need for recognition and the fear caused by the exercise of their new social position and the new approach towards authority. We affirm that, to the extent that social positions change, functions also change, generating relationships that can be expressed through violence until they self-regulate, or the constraints necessary for their control occur, but this process takes long periods of time, as in the socio-cultural constraints that were built to control the paternal domain associated with expressions of violence.

 

This work was supported by the consultation of the database built from the execution of the project: "School violence in Bogotá: An overview from teachers, families and young people[7]," and: "School violence, Neighborhood environments and Urban insecurity.[8]" Theoretical and empirical records were taken corresponding to the family scenario organized from the bibliographical review and the field work carried out in Bogota during the years 2009 and 2012, through the formation of Social Education Units (NES, by their acronym in Spanish) with parents of families in five educational institutions[9]. In addition, the archives of three Family Commissions belonging to the same sectors as the investigated schools were reviewed.

 

Miradas sobre la violencia intrafamiliar / Views on domestic violence

2.    

 

Family violence is becoming more visible because of its repercussions and connections with other forms of micro-social violence and the possibilities of focused preventive strategies that can be implemented from these. It is not to say that in other times it did not occur, but that there is more legal and social involvement and there are more registration mechanisms. Framed in the field of private life, violence was naturalized, tolerated and justified within patriarchal structures. Today, changes in legislation that result in changes in the assessment and reconfiguration of the status of each member of different family forms have made day-to-day violence something that is not tolerated, but rather proscribed and sometimes penalized.

 

 

The first consideration answers the question of what happens from one generation to another: does the violent family history of one subject reproduce itself in the next generation? In this regard, Diaz-Aguado supported by Kauffman and Zigler considers

that:

 

Studies on the characteristics of adults living in families in which violence occurs indicate that their own family of origin was also often violent. There is sufficient evidence to allow children's experiences of abuse to be considered as a risk condition, which increases the likelihood of problems in later relationships, including in this sense those established with their own children and with their partner. It should be made very clear, however, that the transmission of abuse is not inevitable. Most people who were abused in their childhood (about 67%) do not reproduce this problem with their children (Kauffman and Zigler, 1989) and abuse in adult life also occurs in people who were not abused during their childhood[10].

 

 

According to the above quotation, being exposed to violent relationships in childhood is a risk rather than a determination; the subjects mistreated in infancy do not necessarily reproduce this type of relationship with their partners and children because through different processes of self-reflection, reflexivity, education or therapeutic supports, these experiences can take on a different meaning.

 

Some predisposition factors of intra-family violence as in the case of conjugal violence are found in the prior history of violence present in the families of origin of one of the partners. For example,

 

 

Studies conducted in Brazil, Cambodia, Canada, Chile, Colombia, Costa Rica, El Salvador, Spain, the United States, Indonesia, Nicaragua and Venezuela found that mistreatment rates were higher among women whose husbands had been beaten as a child or had witnessed their mother being beaten. Although men who physically abuse their spouses often have a history of violence, not all children who witness or are mistreated become adults who mistreat others[11].

 

 

However, while exposure to violent events in childhood is a risk for the learning of violent behavior through imitation, it is also possible that such learning can be modified or reframed if children are offered the tools to analyze and understand these expressions:

 

In several behavioral studies, it has been shown that children imitate observed violence, although violent behavior can be inhibited if the consequences of such violence are shown, especially if the people that children regard as role models are those who suffer the consequences[12].

 

In the contemporary family field, violent relationships continue to be expressed through transmission, learning and reproduction through the work of inculcation and socialization, but this does not mean that it is a mechanical action, nor that it is reproduced in the same way, on the one hand, because the family field is dynamic and has undergone countless changes especially since the second half of the twentieth century where the positions of the agents (fathers, mothers and children) have changed, power has been redistributed and women , children and adolescents have occupied different places in the social space. On the other hand, because according to Bourdieu, cultural and social reproduction is not governed genetically like the reproduction "of the pelican that lays eggs which always hatch into identical pelicans, but it can be said that the more systematic the efforts of the father to make the son homogeneous to him the greater the chances of the son rebelling against the father[13]."

 

We understand this argument as the immanent possibility of all human beings to change according to the contexts in which their life takes place and this is demonstrated by the new dynamics of the contemporary family, new ways of relating and new ways of expressing their motivations in spite of remaining exposed to the traces of patriarchal relations, that is, when the focus of the relationships of authority are mediated by the domination of the father. The relationships of domestic violence, although they persist in the social and cultural context are not always the same because their motivations, their methods and their meaning are transformed according to each historical and situational moment.

 

 

3.   Family learning and symbolic violence

 

Learning in childhood is obtained in the 'first education' or 'family education' that according to Bourdieu and Passeron "is the education that is acquired in the relationship of the child with the mother mediated by childcare and preceding the relationship with the school[14];" this learning system is carried out through a "pedagogical work as a prolonged action of inculcation[15]." What is acquired in this first education is a "certain cultural capital and a set of positions with respect to the culture[16]." Different types of capitals such as the symbolic, the internalized cultural and the social are acquired from the family universe as a kind of heritage that the subject is then able to reproduce, modify or re-signify.

 

Si bien, el acceso a estos capitales se obtiene desde la primera infancia son otros campos y espacios sociales los que se encargan de su desarrollo, como por ejemplo “la educación difusa: que tiene lugar en el curso de la interacción con miembros competentes de la formación social en cuestión (un ejemplo del cual podría ser el grupo de iguales); la educación familiar; y la educación institucionalizada (ejemplos de la cual pueden ser la escuela o los ritos de pasaje)”.

 

Although access to these funds is obtained from an early age, other fields and social centers are responsible for their development, such as "diffuse education: that takes place in the course of interaction with competent members of the social formation in question (an example of which could be the peer group); family education; and institutionalized education (examples of which may be school or rites of passage)[17]."

 

 
However, underlying diffuse education, family education and institutionalized education is the form of inculcation through Pedagogical Action, which involves specific forms of symbolic violence:

 

All Pedagogical Action (PA) is objectively a symbolic violence, while imposition, by arbitrary power, is a cultural bias (...) every PA, whether this PA is exercised by all educated members of a social formation or group (diffuse education), by members of a family group to which the culture or social class of a group confers this task (family education), or by the system of agents explicitly designated for this purpose by an institution directly or indirectly, exclusive or partially educative (institutionalized education) or that, unless expressly specified, this PA is intended to reproduce the cultural bias of the dominant classes or the dominated classes[18].

 

It is not possible to think of pedagogical action (PA) in any social space without its necessary link with pedagogical authority which requires autonomy to be exercised[19]. But this stated autonomy of both parents as well as teachers to exercise the PA with the necessary AuP has been affected by Colombian modernity for one part: a) by the fact of sharing that authority between the family and the school from the emergence of the republican school that limited the pedagogical authority of parents and conferred it on the public school teachers as of 1819, b) by the changes in the new types of families that have been reconfigured from the second half of the twentieth century, such as the nuclear, extended, single parent[20], polygenetic[21], and unipersonal family, among others, changing power between parents, redistributing functions and transforming family universes making them more complex, c) by exercise of the authority that has radically transformed from a patriarchal authority to a paternal authority shared between father and mother to another with a parental responsibility approach with specific functions of accompaniment, autonomy and freedom, and d) because since 1989 the status of boys, girls and adolescents was radically transformed as subjects with rights in compliance with the principles of the signing of the Convention on Children's Rights[22].

 

 

This means that in the contemporary family field, its structures, relationships and functions have been modified and that all the agents that comprise it have rights, parents, children and adolescents; therefore, the relationships of authority have become more leveled and the links have been tempered while progress is being made towards building relationships, where violence is explicitly limited each time. Even so, family violence continues to be present, but not in the same way as in previous centuries, that is to say that which emanated from the structures of patriarchal culture.

 

 

4.   Strategies of social reproduction of violent relationships

 

We consider it important to raise the issue of the social reproduction of violent relationships from within the familiar context, considering that the family is the main subject and object of said reproduction.

 

 

For this, we rely on the formulation of Bourdieu's concept of 'social reproduction' who analyzed the meaning of the 'strategies' of such reproduction. Consequently, he considered "strategies" to be "sets of actions ordered in pursuit of more or less long-term objectives, and not necessarily posed as such, that members of a collective such as the family produce[23]."

 

In this sense, he considered different strategies of social reproduction such as biological investment strategies, succession strategies, educational and ethical strategies, economic investment strategies, strategies of symbolic investment and strategies of reproduction and habitus dispositions[24].

 

Para el caso particular de esta reflexión, consideramos útil apoyarnos en las estrategias de reproducción social, educativas y éticas, de inversión simbólica y las de reproducción y disposiciones de habitus.

 

For the particular case of this reflection, we consider it useful to support ourselves in the strategies of social reproduction, educational and ethical, symbolic investment and those of reproduction and habitus dispositions.

 

As for educational and ethical strategies, these "tend before everything to produce social agents worthy and capable of receiving the inheritance of the group. This is especially the case with 'ethical' strategies aimed at inculcating the submission of the individual and their interests to the group and its superior interests; thus, they play a fundamental role, ensuring the reproduction of the family that in itself is the "subject" of reproduction strategies[25].

 

 

Las estrategias de inversión simbólica: 
Symbolic investment strategies:

 

 

They are all the actions that aim to preserve and increase the capital of recognition (in the different senses), favoring the reproduction of more favorable schema of perception and appreciation to their properties and producing actions susceptible to positive appreciation according to these categories (for example, showing strength without having to use it). Sociodicea strategies, which are a special case within this type, aim to legitimize domination and its foundation (that is to say, the kind of capital on which it rests), making them more natural[26].

 

 

Finally, the reproduction strategies and provisions of habitus, have as a principle, not a conscious and rational intention, but the provisions of the habitus that spontaneously tend to reproduce the conditions of their own formation. Since they depend on the social conditions whose product is the habitus - that is, in differentiated societies, on the volume and structure of the capital possessed by the family (and its evolution in time) - they tend to perpetuate their identity, that which is differentiated, maintaining gaps, distances, relations of order; thus, they contribute in practice to the reproduction of the complete system of differences constituting the social order[27].

 

 

These types of strategies allow us to understand the rationale that structure, from the family field, the relations that historically have been associated with the violence produced from the very exercise of the functions of the agents that constitute the field, especially fathers and mothers of families. For example, educational strategies are associated with the need to form worthy, moral, ethical, virtuous, educated, good citizens, although often these strategies are associated with violent relationships. And these strategies in our tradition were generally aimed at achieving subordination and punishment with a fundamental objective: obedience or, in Bourdieu's words, the basis of strategies of symbolic domination.

 

 

In practice, since 1989, with the signing of the Convention on Children's Rights, and already entering the 21st century with the issuance of the Code on Children and Adolescents, strategies are changing with the emergence of new functions for the family and with changes in the "parental responsibility" approach, which replaced the notion of authority that was the certainty from which parents and teachers founded relationships with children and adolescents, introducing an era of uncertainty and confusion. The crisis is caused by the clash between new norms and culture based on traditional uses of authority, discipline and the normalization of children and adolescents, especially considering that it is still in force in our tradition, to associate authority with obedience, subordination and punishment[28].

 

For their part, the ethical strategies that intend to inculcate the submission of the individual and their interests to the group, have been carried out primarily through relationships of domination with high doses of symbolic, emotional, physical and verbal violence.

 

Associated with ethical strategies, we find those of symbolic investment, which seek to preserve and increase recognition capital, legitimizing domination; to understand them it is necessary to consider the scope of patriarchal culture and the political, social and cultural conditions that for centuries shaped the domination of paternal power over the entire population and the enormous doses of violence that this usually meant in private life imposed by the father on women, children, and young people, in a naturalized and customarily accepted manner.

 

 

One of the basic functions of the family is the socialization by means of which the meanings of the cultural world in which it is born are transmitted to the younger population; in this transmission, the status quo is perpetuated and with it the differences of class, organization, marginalization and specific forms of perception and representation. In this sense, reproductive strategies and habitus dispositions allow the intergenerational transmission of symbolisms, dispositions and forms, to understand position and relate to the social world in a specific way, imposed on us from our own culture and specifically from the family. These strategies constitute the fundamental fabric of symbolic violence based on belief or perceptual schemes, as Bourdieu puts it: "in the dispositions of the habitus[29]."

 

It is precisely the reproduction strategies and habitus dispositions that allow social relations to be perpetuated, and in this particular case, violent relationships in the micro social spaces.

 

The perpetuation of social relations rests almost exclusively on the habitus, that is, on socially instituted dispositions through methodical strategies of educational investment, which incline agents to produce the continuous work of sustaining social relations […][30].

 

The social reproduction of violent relationships in domestic contexts is based mainly on the strategies of formation, socialization and education; the function of these reproduction strategies is basically the maintenance of the order of these social relations.

 

The functions of social reproduction were assigned exclusively to the family: to form, to educate and to socialize, but modern times introduced other modes of social reproduction such as "the mode of reproduction with an academic component[31]; "with the inclusion of this new mode, the functions of the family and of the school apparatus were intermingled, confused and propagated, bringing as a consequence transformations in the basic exercise of authority, of dominion and paternal power, allowing for the redistribution of powers and social status.

 

The 'new mode of social reproduction', that is to say, the student, assumed for themselves some strategies that were once exclusive to the family, and therefore reproduced the strategies of symbolic investment and with them the framework of symbolic violence with the consent of the family: those of domination, exclusion and maintenance of the status quo. From the configuration of the academic field and the reproduction of the of violent relationships in this social space, the culture of the West, understood as 'Western Christian civilization' has needed for at least two centuries to control the practices that lead to its use.

 

 

 

          Bourdieu raises an excellent question, in our view unresolved, about

 

“the effects of the transformation of the mode of reproduction on the functioning of the family as the instance responsible for reproduction and, conversely, the effects of family transformations (for example, the increase in divorce rates) on the operation of the mode of reproduction with an academic component. Is this family crisis linked to transformations of reproductive strategies that tend to reduce the need for the domestic unit? [32]

 

Since the second half of the twentieth century, there has been a qualitative advance in the understanding of the functioning of the family field, studies are yet to be carried out that show how the transformations of social reproduction strategies, both in the family mode as well as in the academic mode are mutually affected by their interconnectedness of functions and relationships of interdependence.

 

 

In this sense, it is fundamental to understand the transformations of social reproduction in the face of new contemporary family forms and their implications on social reproduction, educational, ethical, and symbolic investment strategies, and the reproduction and dispositions of habitus. We consider that the transformations in the family mode of reproduction directly affect the transformations in the mode of academic reproduction and vice versa. Not surprisingly, the humanity of the West is assisting the return of education to the family through the educational movement called "Free Education" or "Homeschooling[33]," which indicates the dynamics of social change that family and education are capable of generating in only two centuries of educational modernity.

 

In any case, contemporary family forms, in their diversity, continue to be the subject of most reproduction strategies. Each of these family forms transmits and reproduces the social order through educational, economic, symbolic and other strategies which make it necessary to explore through new studies.

 

 

However, contemporary family forms function as a body and as a field and in them it is possible to observe the internal power struggles for domination, changes in social positions and the maintenance of relationships of force that are no longer only a domain of masculinity, although this force continues to manifest itself through symbolic and physical violence but with less intensity than in previous centuries and with new motivations according to socio-historical change.

 

Child to parent violence relationships

5.    

 

 
We could consider child to parent violence as a new expression of relationships that manifest deep discomfort among sons, daughters, fathers, mothers or adult caregivers in contemporary times.

 

 

Child to parent violence has been defined as "repeated behaviors of physical violence (aggression, shoving, pushing, throwing objects), verbal (repeated insults, threats) or non-verbal (threatening gestures, breaking sentimental objects) directed at parents or the adults who take their place. Excluded are isolated cases, related to the consumption of drugs, severe psychopathology, mental deficiency and parricide[34]." This type of violence is a manifestation of the transformations in the power relations between parents and children who find a way to resolve tensions through physical, emotional and verbal aggression. In Colombia, the National Institute of Forensic Medicine (INML, by its acronym in Spanish) has registered this type of violence as the mistreatment of the elderly and in 2008 denominated it as 'elder abuse syndrome', since then: "1,175 people over 60 were physically assaulted by family members. For this population, the most frequent perpetrators are the children, followed by other relatives[35]." In this article, we will assume this syndrome as a manifestation of child to parent violence.

 

 

Child to parent violence reproduces the dynamics of relationships within the familial context in which the son or daughter is immersed, in the sense exposed by Norbert Elías: "The individual human being lives and has lived since they were small, within a network of interdependencies that they cannot modify or break at will, but only when the structure of this network allows[36]." These relationships of violence show the fact that they have been exposed to the transformation of the role of protective parents, caregivers or educators into perpetrators, who, under specific cultural patterns, have given new meaning to expressions of violence, such as considering violence as an educational strategy, of obedience, of formation, of discipline, of assuring respect and of maintaining order.

 

In such cultural contexts, "violence takes on devastating characteristics when the act of violence is re-labeled (" This is not violence, but education "). Its effect, for example physical pain ("It does not hurt you that much"), is denied. The system of values ​​is redefined ("It's for your own good" or, "I do it because you deserve it"). The roles are mystified ("I do it because I love you"), or the agent position is redirected ("You're the one who forces me to do it[37].")

 

 

Once the children learn how these relationships work, they tend to reproduce them with their parents or with others, as learned and culturally accepted and tolerated ways of behavior. As an example, a mother in an educational institution in Bogota explains that one of her biggest problems is verbal aggression from her children, but considers that she herself uses this form of relationship to educate her children as a way to discipline them and exercise control and authority and to prevent her children from repeating what she has done. The mother states that she was mistreated by her 12-year-old daughter in the same way that she was by her husband[38]. That is, the mother turns to verbal violence as an educational strategy and as a symbolic investment strategy, but these relationships are reciprocated back to her from the daughter, in expressions of violence that when learned are reproduced without the possibility of any re-signification so far.

 

Looking at other contexts, we find, for example, that a study carried out in the Basque country on child to parent violence showed that "80% of the children who had suffered or observed incidences of intra-family violence had a claim for assaulting their parents. This result supports the theory that children adopt tactics experienced by their parents, and very few adopt tactics which are not learned[39]." When violence is the result of family strategies to maintain order or to convey authority, it is very difficult for children and adolescents not to reproduce them; even so, in the course of events in one's life it is possible to assign new meanings to these stories and generate new relationships where violence is not present.

 

In the contemporary social and legal context, children and adolescents who have been victims of intra-familiar violence find different alternatives to either reproduce the circle of violence or to break it. Within the reproduction of the circle we regard child to parent violence to be one of its most perverse manifestations, 'an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth'; the other alternative is on the side of the complaint as evidenced by the new social sensitivity that rejects violent relationships especially against children and adolescents and that is reflected in the New Code of Infancy and Adolescence of 2006 in Colombia. Both mechanisms, child to parent violence and the denunciation of violent relationships are unacceptable to parents and caregivers insofar as their authority and domination are questioned. When children use the same methods of violence with their parents or when they denounce their educational methods, parents are de-legitimized and their position is distorted, believing themselves to be victims of their own children in the majority of cases.

 

 

The aforementioned Basque country study found that 56% of young people denounced for violent behavior towards their parents lived in family organizations different from the original nuclear family[40]. This makes us think about the complexity of relationships that a child should assume when his or her original nuclear family is changed and they must enter another as in the case of polygenetic families[41], especially if they allow violent relationships within them. In the case of Bogota, we have the complaints made in the Family Commissions that corroborate it[42].

 

 

Graph N°1. Poligenetic family and child to parent violence

 

Mother 38

years old

1st union

Husband 44

 

 

Son 22

 

Son 17

2nd union

Husband 33

 

Daughter 12

 

Son 8

Source: Family Commission, Locality of Santa Fe. 2008.

 

 

In the case indicated in figure 1, the 17-year-old who assaults the father of the family, lives with his mother and her second husband and the siblings from this second relationship. This young man manifests the childhood memories he has of his step-father when he says:

 

"I do not consider him my dad because since I was little I saw that he only mistreated my mother, him coming home drunk and insulting her. My mom had to leave the neighborhood. On the day of the incident he hit me so I hit back, because he was the one who started it, he also kicked me and I responded and kicked him back[43]."

 

 

The highest age frequency in which children assault the parents is 17 years. This phenomenon occurs in all social classes. The family forms of greatest social risk are those of single parent and polygenetic, although cases are also recorded in nuclear families[44].

 

 

The Family Commissions of Bogotá report cases of child to parent violence between stepchildren and stepparents:

 

 

 

[...] she states that her 12-year-old step-child has a rude attitude and is rude to her; the situation with the minor appeared in the last few days because the father recently brought him to live in the house. The situation reached a point where the boy physically assaulted her, insulted her, said bad words, and yesterday the boy took a knife and tried to assault her[45].

 

Grandparent caregivers can become targets of violence by their grandchildren, as expressed by a grandmother who denounced her 17-year-old grandson for physical assault:

 

"There have been many conflicts with my grandson and the problem comes from a long way back because he got used to taking money, I'm working and he stays at home and goes through my things, I work selling cell phone minutes, in the last conflict I asked him for something and he grabbed my arms and squeezed me very hard that left me with a mark from a ring and he pushed me back, he also treated his mother like that[46]."

 

In general, children, stepchildren or grandchildren who express violent relationships toward their caregivers, manifest other types of associated problems as in the present case such as theft, and in others, poor academic performance, mistreatment of peers, substance abuse and an early link to delinquent groups.

 

 

In the configuration of relationships of violence between children and parents or adult caregivers, there are many factors such as "violence within the family, substance abuse, frustration and emotional disturbances. The regular consumption of mind-altering substances can increase verbal aggression of children towards their parents by 60%[47]." One mother relates: "I have conflicts with my 17-year-old son because he is a drug user, he chases me with a razor telling me that he is going to kill me[48]." The regular consumption of substances in young people alters not only the parental relationships but the network of social relationships in which they are immersed becoming an important element of social risk.

 

 

6.   Vínculo  fraterno y relaciones entre hermanos

Fraternal bond and sibling relationships

 

 

It is necessary to clarify that although this article approaches the changes in the contemporary familiar field and the violent relationships that are generated there from a social perspective, we cannot ignore the contributions of other disciplines such as psychoanalysis to understand the subjective configurations at the core of family life. Therefore we return to the contributions of Luis Kancyper, who defined the fraternal complex as an "organized set of hostile and loving desires that the child experiences with respect to his siblings[49]," but differentiating it from the Oedipus complex. "The fraternal and the oedipal complexes articulate and reinforce each other. Laplanche states that the triangle of fraternal rivalry is made up of the child, parents and sibling (while the Oedipus triangle consists of the child, the father and the mother[50]).” It analyzes the situation that is generated in children when the parents show preference for one child in particular and the feelings of rivalry, jealousy and envy that the siblings experience by not occupying that place in the eyes of their parents. This value that the parents assign to their children, either because they are the firstborn, because of the gender they wanted their child to be, or because of the place they occupy in the family, generates imbalances in the power relations between one and the other, who are assumed to be either intruders or rivals. Historical studies have shown the socio-cultural value of primogeniture and the devaluation of second-born children and what this means for the development of identity, social recognition and the way each one is positioned in the world. In this respect, the historian Stone points out how in the seventeenth century

 

[...] the birthright created an abyss between the eldest son and heir and his younger brothers who, by accident in the birth order, were destined to be thrown into the world and probably to fall [...] the younger children are the most unnatural enemies of their own home[51].

 

 

From the perspective of Bourdieu, primogeniture can be understood as a social reproduction strategy of the family or domestic field, as a succession strategy and as an economic investment strategy: "Succession strategies aim to guarantee the transmission of the material heritage between generations with minimum possible waste within the limits of the possibilities offered by customs." Economic investment strategies "tend to perpetuate or increase capital under its different forms[52]."

 

The reproduction strategies of the family field are rethought according to the historical context. For example, in Colombia, progress has been made towards equality of rights for children through the issuance of Law 29 of 1982[53]; even so, in contemporary families, the type of conjugal bond in which the child is born, the order of arrival and the gender and number of siblings continues to be significant, given that these elements shape the positioning of each member and the disputes to be assured a place in the family field, both symbolically as well as socially and territorially.

 

The twentieth-century approach regarding the rights of children does not legally allow for differences between older and younger children or between children by gender. This condition of equality before the law rethinks the places of boys and girls, rearranging positions in the contemporary family field. Even so, family practices show differentiated treatment for their sons and daughters.

 

7.   From the fraternal complex to sibling violence

 

There are few studies on the issue of sibling violence, however, there is some empirical evidence. A study conducted in the United States with children between three and seventeen showed that 82% were involved in an aggressive act toward a sibling during the past year (throwing objects, hitting with an object, kicking and biting[54].)

 

For the Colombian case, at the dawn of the 21st century brothers are the main aggressors, within the category established by the INML as 'mistreatment among other relatives.'

 

Table N°1. Maltreatment among other relatives by aggressor. Colombia, 2006[55]

                  

 

Agressor

Cases

Percentage

Sibling

3,502

26.3

Other relatives

3,386

25.4

Brother/Sister-in-law

2,183

16.4

Son/Daughter

1,377

10.3

Father

763

5.7

Cousin

585

4.4

Uncle/Aunt

475

3.5

Father/Mother-in-law

367

2.7

Stepfather

292

2.2

Mother

290

2.1

Stepmother

46

0.3

Grandfather/Grandmother

20

0.1

No information

1

0.0

Total

13,287

100.0

 

              Source: SIAVAC – DRIP. Instituto Nacional de Medicina Legal y Ciencias Forenses, 2006 p. 106.

 

 

This trend was repeated in 2007, since most of the attacks were caused by "a sibling or a relative, 25.6% and 25.3% respectively[56]." In 2008, the figures indicated an increase in mistreatment among siblings: "The siblings with 27.3% are the main perpetrators followed by other relatives with 21.5%. The increase in sibling aggression can be explained by hierarchical differences within the family or the dispute over space (...)[57]."

 

 

Table Nº2. Mistreatment by other relatives according to possible aggressor. Colombia, 2008

 

Possible aggressor

Women

Men

Total

Sibling

2.666

1.155

3.821

Other relatives

1.824

1.191

3.015

Brother/Sister-in-law

1.463

856

2.319

Son/Daughter

914

426

1.340

Father

658

276

934

Cousin

408

348

756

Uncle/Aunt

391

215

606

Father/Mother-in-law

208

203

411

Stepfather

242

110

352

Mother

282

64

346

Stepmother

52

13

65

Grandfather/Grandmother

18

5

23

No information

3

3

6

Total

9.129

4.865

13.994

 

         Source: SIAVAC – DRIP. Instituto Nacional de Medicina Legal y Ciencias Forenses, 2006 p. 124.

 

According to studies by David Finkelhor[58] and other US researchers, sibling violence is prevalent among children six to twelve years old, occurring more frequently among males than among females, with a tendency to decline when boys and girls reach adolescence. Most of the time it is the brothers who abuse their younger siblings. In Bogotá, cases of mistreatment by older sisters are recorded when they perform functions as caregivers of the family group and of their sisters[59].

 

Violence among siblings does not escape the socio-cultural meaning schemes that assign a positive value to violent relationships as a strategy of education and symbolic investment in order to learn how to defend oneself in life or to learn the expected behaviors. It is usually trivialized or ignored by parents and adult caregivers, producing feelings of family injustice, impotence and abandonment.

 

The nature of this violence is physical, sexual, emotional, verbal and of abandonment or neglect. A 15-year-old girl denounced physical and psychological abuse by her older brother, motivated by disagreements with her boyfriend, before a Family Commission in Bogota. The mother accepted this abuse by saying that the daughter deserved it for misbehaving[60]. Another 14-year-old boy agrees that when he is angry he is unable to control himself and so he lets it out by beating his sisters[61].

 

Emotional violence between siblings is very frequent and manifests itself through insults and rejection. A seventeen-year-old says about her eighteen-year-old brother that "he is very grown up, he believes he is something he is not, he thinks he is the boss, he is very abusive[62]..."

 

Sexual violence among siblings has been registered in Colombia by the INML, with 399 cases of 17,914 reported nationally in 2007[63] and 409 cases of 18,879 in 2008[64].

Because of the characteristics of violence between siblings, it presents similarities to abuse between peers, which Dan Olweus[65] characterized by the intentionality of doing harm, the repetition of violent acts, the abuse of power, expressing oneself within a social group, manifesting an imbalance of forces and maintaining a dominant vs. subordinate relationship.

 

8.   Conclusions

A historical view of the decades between the 1960s and the first decade of the twenty-first century results in the transformation of family relationships very quickly from one generation to the next, making violent relationships in which abuse by children against their parents and siblings has become predominant while in previous generations it was characterized mainly by parental abuse towards their children and between spouses.

 

Intra-familiar violence can be understood as a form of learning, transmission and the reproduction of norms and cultural meanings assigned to the agents that in positions of domination exert coercion over the dominated.

 

Educational, ethical and symbolic investment strategies have been associated with the use of violent relationships for their development. With the historical transformations, these strategies have also been modified and the use of violence has been limited in its implementation; the relationships of violence in the family continue to present themselves with different methods and meanings according to the new legal and social positions that are now assigned to parents, children and adolescents.

 

In the new paradigm of rights in which the child population finds itself, social relations have changed and its articulator in terms of authority has shifted to relationships of solidarity, responsibility and equality and this has had repercussions in the universe of social relations. It is in this new map of social relationships in which the child and adolescent population has been made visible, and from this context new forms of expression and new ways of being a boy, girl and adolescent emerge; these ways show a conflict with the relationships of authority and respect within the framework of the former patriarchal authority now obsolete in a transition in which it refuses to disappear altogether.

 

Child to parent violence can be understood as a form of the reproduction of the circles of violence in the family field, violence that can equally be re-signified by agents, parents, or children when different mechanisms are accessed for their control as with the case of denunciation in the new framework of a society of rights.

 

Although sibling violence can be recorded as a historical constant, it is important to note that this violence in the contemporary family is part of a different historical moment and therefore the manifestations of this type of violence express different meanings, among others, the desires for recognition , not just for firstborn children; the desire for equality insofar as children and adolescents are subjects with rights and equality and the need to occupy a social space in which everyone can be made visible.

 


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Bogotá. Comisaría de Familia. Localidad Santa Fe, 2007, 2008, 2009.

Bogotá. Comisaría de Familia. Localidad Usaquén, 2007, 2008, 2009.

Bogotá. Comisaría de Familia. Localidad Suba, 2007, 2008, 2009.

 

Colombia. Congreso de la República. “Ley 29 de 1982”.Diario Oficial N° 35.961, marzo 9, 1982.

 

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To cite this article:

Bárbara Yadira García Sánchez and Javier Guerrero Barón, “Theoretical elements for a historical approach to the family and its relations of violence during the transition between the 20th and 21st centuries.” Historia y Memoria N° 12 (January-June, 2016): 253-286.

 



*This article is the product of two research projects: “School violence in Bogota: an overview from teachers, families and young people. Application of a qualitative model of research and prevention in the family, the school, and the neighborhood,” finance by Universidad Pedagógica y Tecnológia de Colombia, Universidad Distrital  Francisco José de Caldas and COLCIENCIAS 2009-2011; and the project “School violence, neighborhood environments and urban insecurity,” financed by Universidad Distrital Francisco José de Caldas, 2012-2015.

[1]Doctor in Education, Rudecolombia. Professor at Interinstitutional Doctorate in Education, Universidad Distrital Francisco José de Caldas. Research Group: Training of Educators. Line of research: History of  Education. barbaragarciasanchez@yahoo.com

[2] Doctor in History, Universidad Nacional de Colombia. Professor at Doctorate in History, Universidad Pedagógica y Tecnológica de Colombia. Research Group: Social Conflicts of the 20th century. Line of research: Citizenry and Violence. jguerrer99@gmail.com.

[3] Andrew R Morrison and Biehl M Loreto. Too close to home. Domestic Violence in the Americas. New York: Inter-American Development Bank, 1999. Available at: www.iabd.org/pub.

[4] The first revolution of the Young that took place with force in the 60s and the 70s of the 20th century: first, with a music and a way of dancing of their own, then in political and social autonomous revolts, such as in May 1968 in Paris, the Prague Spring, and Tlatelolco in Mexico in that same year. With respect to Javier Guerrero and Bárbara García Violencias en Contexto (Bogotá: Universidad Distrital Francisco José de Caldas, 2012).

[5] Pierre Bourdieu and Loïc Wacquant, Invitación a una sociología reflexiva (Argentina: Siglo XXI editores, 2005), 131.

[6] It is important to acknowledge other forms of intra-familiar violence: conjugal violence, sexual violence and child abuse. This last one is still present, though with different motivations and high rates of frequency, exercised by the mother as well as the father, but not with the same intensity of previous centuries, especially the 18th century.

[7] Researchers: Bárbara García Sánchez (Universidad Distrital Francisco José de caldas), Javier Guerrero Barón (Universidad Pedagógica y Tecnológica de Colombia UPTC) and Blanca Ortiz (Universidad Distrital Francisco José de Caldas) Co-financed Project: Colciencias, Universidad Distrital and UPTC.2009-2011.

[8] Researcher Bárbara García Sánchez. Project financed by Research Center of Universidad Distrital. 2012-2015.

[9] Bárbara Yadira García Sánchez and Javier Guerrero Barón, Núcleos de Educación Social NES: Investigación, prevención y participación (with IAP methodology) (Bogotá: Universidad Distrital Francisco José de Caldas, 2012).

[10] María José Díaz-Aguado, Convivencia Escolar y Prevención de la Violencia (Spain: Ministry for  Education, 2005. [Retrieved 1 October 2014].   Available at:

http: //www.ite.educacion.es/w3/recursos2/convivencia_escolar/index.html, p. 64-65. The author references James Kaufman and Edward Zigler, “The Intergenerational Transmission of Child Abuse”, in: Dante Cicchetti and Vicki Carlson (Eds.), Child Maltreatment: Theory and Research on the causes and consequences of child abuse and neglect (Cambridge: University. 1989); 129-150. 

[11] Etienne G. Krug, et al. (ed).  World Reporto on Violence and Health (Washington, D.C.: Panamerican Health Organization. Regional Office for the Americas of the World Health Organization, 2003). Technical and scientific publication Issue 588 [Retrieved 25 October, 2014]. Available at: < http://www.paho.org>. ISBN 92 75 31588 4 p. 12.

[12] Andrew R. Morrison and Biehl M. Loreto, Too close to home (New York: Interamerican Development Bank, 1999). Available at: www.iabd.org/pub p. 199.

[13] Pierre Bourdieu and Jean C. Passeron, La reproducción: Elementos para una teoría del sistema de enseñanza (Barcelona: Laia, 1972), 22.

[14]Pierre Bourdieu and Jean C. Passeron, La reproducción...23.

[15]Pierre Bourdieu and Jean C. Passeron, La reproducción…229.

[16]Pierre Bourdieu and Jean C. Passeron, La reproducción…19.

[17]Pierre Bourdieu and Jean C. Passeron, Fundamentos de una teoría de la violencia simbólica (France: 1978). Available at : <udg.mx/laventana/libr3/bourdieu.html#cola>.

[18]Pierre Bourdieu and Jean C. Passeron, La reproducción…45-46.

[19] Pierre Bourdieu and Jean C. Passeron, La reproducción…51-52.

[20] When the children live with only one parent, mother or father, as head of the household.

[21] It is the result of a prior legal union or of fact in which the couple had one or more children. This family is formed as the consequence of the union of one or both members of the couple, were the new children of each of them and the ones they have in common get together. This family responds to the popular saying: los tuyos, los míos y los nuestros. When the second unión is formed through marriage it receives the name of nuclear, poligenetic family (See: Blanca Inés Jiménez Zuluaga. Las Familias Nucleares Poligeneticas: Cambios y Permanencias”. In: Revista Nómadas, Universidad Central, Issue 11, Bogota, October 1999. p. 102-108. p. 104)

 

[22] This topic has been worked on from the perspective of authority relations in a prior article. See: Ver: Bárbara García Sánchez and Javier Guerrero Barón, “Nuevas concepciones de autoridad y cambios en las relaciones de violencia en la familia y la escuela”, Magis, Revista Internacional de Investigación en Educación, 4 (8) (2011) Special edition: La violencia en las escuelas, 297-318.

[23] Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social, Parte I Reproducción y dominación (Buenos Aires: Siglo XXI Editores, 2011), 31-50. Available at:

http://www.sigloxxieditores.com.ar/pdfs/bourdieu_las_estrategias_de_la_reproduccion_social.pdf. (Retrieved on 15 May, 2014).

[24]Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social…36-37.

[25]Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social…36.

[26]Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social…37.

[27]Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social…37

[28] This topic has been widely dealt with in the afore cited article by Bárbara García Sánchez and Javier Guerrero Barón, “Nuevas concepciones de autoridad…” especially in the section called: “De la autoridad parental a la responsabilidad parental”, p.299 and onward.

[29] Pierre Bourdieu, Meditaciones pascalianas (T. Kauf, Trad.) (Barcelona: Editorial Anagrama, 1999), 225.

[30]Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social…44.

[31]Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social…46.

[32] Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social…47-48.

[33] Some sites to consult on this matter: http://www.educacionlibre.org/quienessomos.htm; http://www.educantenfamilia.blogspot.com.es/

[34]Roberto Pereira, “Violencia filio-parental: un fenómeno emergente”, Revista  Mosaico, fourth season, Issue 36, 8-9.

[35]Pedro A. Carreño Samaniego, “Violencia Intrafamiliar”, Forensis (2008): 115.

[36]Norbert Elías, La sociedad de los individuos (Barcelona: Península. 1990), 29.

[37] Dora Fried Schnitman, Nuevos paradigmas, cultura y subjetividad (Buenos Aires: Editorial Paidós. 1994), 353.

[38] Interview of Mothers 007, 008, Colegio No. 1, Bogota, February 13, 2009. Countless testimonials in Family Commissions. Files from 2006 to 2009 were reviewed in three Commissions in Bogota.

[39] Ibabe Izaskun, Joana Jauregizar and Óscar Díaz, Violencia filio-parental: conductas violentas de jóvenes hacia sus padres (Vitoria: Central Service of Publications Vasque Government, 2007).

Available at: http://www.jusap.ejgv.euskadi.net/r47-ontjus/es/contenidos/informe_estudio/violencia_filio_parental/es_vifilpar/adjuntos/Violencia_Filio-Parental.pdf. p.119 (Retrieved 4 January, 2014).

[40] Ibabe Izaskun, Joana Jauregizar and Óscar Díaz, Violencia filio-parental:…20.

[41] Poligenetic family: also called consensual or succesive, where a parent cohabitates with a second, third or fourth partnet with mixed children.

[42] Bogota. Family Commission. Locality of Santa Fe. January 2008. The cases consulted in other Family Commissions ratify this conclusion.   

[43] Bogota. Family Commission. Locality of Santa Fe…2008

[44] Norma Rubiano. Conflicto y violencia intrafamiliar.  (Bogota, Editorial Sigma Editores. 2003). P. 51, 86, 87, 93

[45] Bogota. Familia Commission. Locality of  Usaquén. September 2007.

[46] Bogota. Family Commission. Locality of Suba. May 2009.

[47] Ibabe Izaskun, Joana Jauregizar and Óscar Díaz, Violencia filio-parental:…117.

[48] Bogota. Family Commission. Locality of Usaquén. May 2007.

[49]Luis Kancyper, El complejo fraterno (Buenos Aires: Grupo Editorial Lumen.2004), 243.

[50]Daniel A. Fernández, “La importancia del vínculo fraterno”, Revista de psicología sociedad y cultura. Available at: http://abraxasmagazine.wordpress.com/2008/04/25/la-importancia-del-vinculo-fraterno/

[51]Lawrence Stone, Familia, Sexo y Matrimonio en Inglaterra, 1500-1800 (Mexico: Fund for Economic Culture. 1979), 73.

[52] Pierre Bourdieu, Las estrategias de la reproducción social (Buenos Aires: Siglo XXI editores, 2011) 36, 37. 

[53] Colombia. Congress of the Republic, “Law 29 of 1982”, Official Bulletin No. 35.961, March 9, 1982, by which the same inheritance rights are granted to legitimate, extramarital, and foster children, and the corresponding adjustments to the inheritance orders are carried out. Article 1: “Children are legitimate, extramarital and Foster, and they will have the same rights and obligations.”

[54]Murray Arnold Straus, Richard Gelles y Suzanne Steinmetz, Behind closed doors: violence in the American Family (editors) (Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications, 1988). Cited by: José Manuel Alonso Varea and José Luis Castellanos Delgado,Por un enfoque integral de la violencia familiar. Intervención Psicosocial”, Revista Intervención Psicosocial, Vol.15, Issue 3. Printed version ISSN 1132-0559. (2006). Available at: http://scielo.isciii.es/scielo.php?pid=S1132-05592006000300002&script=sci_arttext.

[55]Rosa Helena Sierra Fajardo, Neidi Macana Tuta and Clara Ivett Cortés, “Violencia intrafamiliar”, Forensis (2006); 106. Available at: www.medicinalegal.gov.co.

[56]Mónica María García, “Violencia intrafamiliar”, Forensis (2007); 110. Available at: www.medicinalegal.gov.co.

[57]Pedro A. Carreño Samaniego, “Violencia Intrafamiliar”, Forensis  (2008); 124.

[58]David Finkelhor, Richard OrmrodRichard Ormrod, Heather TurnerHeather Turnery Sherry L. Hamby, “La victimización de niños y jóvenes: un estudio exhaustivo, Nacional”, Revista Child Maltreatment. Sage Publications Vol. 10. (2005); 5-25. Online ISSN: 1552-6119. Available at:

http://cmx.sagepub.com/content/10/1/5.short?rss=1&ssource=mfc

[59]Bárbara Garcia Sánchez and Luís Flores Alarcón, Los Núcleos de Educación Familiar: una Estrategia para la Protección de Los Derechos Vulnerables de la Familia Gestante Precoz de Estratos 1 y 2 de Bogotá. Available at: http://www.tipica.org/pdf/01_familias_de_origen.pdf. TIPICA: Boletín Electrónico De Salud Escolar  ISSN: 1900-5121.  v.2 Issue 1 p.1 - 27 ,2006. (Retreived on 19 August 2014).

[60]Bogota, Family Commission. Locality of Santa Fe. October 2007.

[61]Bogota, Family Commission. Locality of Santa Fe. October 2007.

[62]Bogota, Familiy Commission. Locality of Suba. February 2008.

[63]Jorge Oswaldo González Ortiz, “Informes parciales por presunto delito sexual”, Forensis (Bogota: Internacional Sprint, 2007), 148.

[64]Raúl Insuasty Mora, “Delitos sexuales”, Forensis (Bogota: Quebecor World, 2008), 160.

[65]Dan Olweus, Conductas de acoso y amenaza entre escolares (Madrid: Ediciones Morata, Cuarta reimpresión, 1998).